One mom seeks advice: "I am a single mom with a 13 year old son. Last year he was buying pay for view movies that were porn. I have since blocked it and after that issue, had a talk with him about sex. He claimed that he was just curious. I totally understood this and told him so. I advised him that he should talk to me, as porno movies were not the place to learn about sex. I have just found out that he is accessing porno sites on the internet, but they are gay porno sites. I am at a loss as what to do or how to approach this. Should i tell him i know that he was on these sites? Should i even be concerned that they were gay sites? Is this just normal curiousity? Many thanks to anyone who gives me some help."
Denise's thoughts: "I'm not too sure I would address the issue of the sites being gay porn, as the main issue is that he shouldn't be on any porn sites. Use fair and firm discipline, share your expectations for use of the computer and see if he has any ideas on how you both can work out this problem.
As for the sites being gay porn. It could be normal curiosity or it may not be. Either way, you'll need to continue to love your son for the person he is, therefore taking some time before bringing this up - or waiting for him to bring it up - is probably your best course of action."
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